Thoughts during conception

Though the bond shared between the mother and the child is the strongest bond, as the child grows inside the warmth of the womb of his or her mother, the father’s contribution to child’s physical, emotional and mental health cannot be denied too. A child comes into being with the union of the father’s sperm and the mother’s ovum. Hence the child has 50-50 characters from both his or her parents. Therefore, the ‘would be’ father should also take equal responsibility for the overall well being of their child.

While coming together, the ‘would be’ parents should have a positive image of a baby. The baby should look sweet, innocent, lovable, and healthy. The parent’s heart should be filled with the emotions of love, compassion, care and responsibility. If the couple is very keen on bringing a highly spiritual child then they should pray for a highly evolved spiritual soul to come into the ‘would be’ mother’s womb. This may take quite some time as highly spiritual souls do not enter any womb on this planet. They too look for a combination (of sperm and ovum) that is highly spiritual or at least has an above average spiritual quotient!

Every soul incarnates to fulfill its purpose. If the soul finds one combination worthy of fulfilling its aim for which it would consider taking a physical form, it enters the womb at the ripe moment. So, all those who may be trying to conceive for quite some time, but are not able to conceive even after taking all medications etc; please be patient that there might be a soul waiting to come to your womb, but the ripe moment has not yet arrived. Keep no anxiety, be patient, be positive. A day will surely come when you will conceive.

Then there are a few couples, who have tried everything under the sky to conceive, but have not been successful in doing so. My friends do not fret; probably you incarnated to fulfill your life’s purpose without bearing any child. We do not know what the universe has in store for us. Maybe, you are better off this way only! Still, lead a peaceful, meaningful, spiritual life.